diff --git a/backend/migrations/20260126000000-add-relationship-change-log.cjs b/backend/migrations/20260126000000-add-relationship-change-log.cjs
deleted file mode 100644
index 20bb204..0000000
--- a/backend/migrations/20260126000000-add-relationship-change-log.cjs
+++ /dev/null
@@ -1,105 +0,0 @@
-/* eslint-disable */
-'use strict';
-
-/** Log-Tabelle für alle Änderungen an relationship und marriage_proposals (keine Einträge werden gelöscht).
- *  Hilft zu analysieren, warum z.B. Werbungen um einen Partner über Nacht verschwinden. */
-
-module.exports = {
-  async up(queryInterface, Sequelize) {
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS falukant_log.relationship_change_log (
-        id serial PRIMARY KEY,
-        changed_at timestamp with time zone NOT NULL DEFAULT CURRENT_TIMESTAMP,
-        table_name character varying(64) NOT NULL,
-        operation character varying(16) NOT NULL,
-        record_id integer,
-        payload_old jsonb,
-        payload_new jsonb
-      );
-    `);
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      CREATE INDEX IF NOT EXISTS relationship_change_log_changed_at_idx
-      ON falukant_log.relationship_change_log (changed_at);
-    `);
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      CREATE INDEX IF NOT EXISTS relationship_change_log_table_operation_idx
-      ON falukant_log.relationship_change_log (table_name, operation);
-    `);
-
-    const triggerFunction = `
-      CREATE OR REPLACE FUNCTION falukant_log.log_relationship_change()
-      RETURNS TRIGGER AS $$
-      DECLARE
-        v_record_id INTEGER;
-        v_payload_old JSONB;
-        v_payload_new JSONB;
-      BEGIN
-        IF TG_OP = 'INSERT' THEN
-          v_record_id := NEW.id;
-          v_payload_old := NULL;
-          v_payload_new := to_jsonb(NEW);
-        ELSIF TG_OP = 'UPDATE' THEN
-          v_record_id := NEW.id;
-          v_payload_old := to_jsonb(OLD);
-          v_payload_new := to_jsonb(NEW);
-        ELSIF TG_OP = 'DELETE' THEN
-          v_record_id := OLD.id;
-          v_payload_old := to_jsonb(OLD);
-          v_payload_new := NULL;
-        END IF;
-
-        INSERT INTO falukant_log.relationship_change_log (
-          table_name,
-          operation,
-          record_id,
-          payload_old,
-          payload_new
-        ) VALUES (
-          TG_TABLE_NAME,
-          TG_OP,
-          v_record_id,
-          v_payload_old,
-          v_payload_new
-        );
-
-        IF TG_OP = 'DELETE' THEN
-          RETURN OLD;
-        ELSE
-          RETURN NEW;
-        END IF;
-      END;
-      $$ LANGUAGE plpgsql;
-    `;
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(triggerFunction);
-
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS trg_log_relationship_change ON falukant_data.relationship;
-      CREATE TRIGGER trg_log_relationship_change
-      AFTER INSERT OR UPDATE OR DELETE ON falukant_data.relationship
-      FOR EACH ROW
-      EXECUTE FUNCTION falukant_log.log_relationship_change();
-    `);
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS trg_log_relationship_change ON falukant_data.marriage_proposals;
-      CREATE TRIGGER trg_log_relationship_change
-      AFTER INSERT OR UPDATE OR DELETE ON falukant_data.marriage_proposals
-      FOR EACH ROW
-      EXECUTE FUNCTION falukant_log.log_relationship_change();
-    `);
-  },
-
-  async down(queryInterface, Sequelize) {
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS trg_log_relationship_change ON falukant_data.relationship;
-    `);
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS trg_log_relationship_change ON falukant_data.marriage_proposals;
-    `);
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      DROP FUNCTION IF EXISTS falukant_log.log_relationship_change();
-    `);
-    await queryInterface.sequelize.query(`
-      DROP TABLE IF EXISTS falukant_log.relationship_change_log;
-    `);
-  },
-};
diff --git a/backend/services/falukantService.js b/backend/services/falukantService.js
index 2bf5968..ee41149 100644
--- a/backend/services/falukantService.js
+++ b/backend/services/falukantService.js
@@ -3158,16 +3158,23 @@ class FalukantService extends BaseService {
             const step7Start = Date.now();
             const ownAge = calcAge(character.birthdate);
             if (ownAge >= 12 && family.relationships.length === 0) {
-                family.possiblePartners = await this.getPossiblePartners(character.id);
-                if (family.possiblePartners.length === 0) {
-                    // Asynchron erstellen, nicht blockieren
-                    this.createPossiblePartners(
-                        character.id,
-                        character.gender,
-                        character.regionId,
-                        character.titleOfNobility,
-                        ownAge
-                    ).catch(err => console.error('[getFamily] Error creating partners (async):', err));
+                try {
+                    family.possiblePartners = await this.getPossiblePartners(character.id);
+                    if (family.possiblePartners.length === 0) {
+                        // Asynchron erstellen, nicht blockieren
+                        this.createPossiblePartners(
+                            character.id,
+                            character.gender,
+                            character.regionId,
+                            character.titleOfNobility,
+                            ownAge
+                        ).catch(err => console.error('[getFamily] Error creating partners (async):', err));
+                    }
+                } catch (err) {
+                    // Fehler beim Laden nicht an Frontend durchreichen – Seite bleibt nutzbar, Log für Analyse
+                    console.error('[getFamily] getPossiblePartners failed (characterId=%s):', character.id, err?.message || err);
+                    if (err?.stack) console.error('[getFamily] getPossiblePartners stack:', err.stack);
+                    family.possiblePartners = [];
                 }
             }
             timings.step7_possible_partners = Date.now() - step7Start;
@@ -3399,32 +3406,43 @@ class FalukantService extends BaseService {
                 {
                     model: FalukantCharacter,
                     as: 'proposedCharacter',
+                    required: false,
                     attributes: ['id', 'firstName', 'lastName', 'gender', 'regionId', 'birthdate'],
                     include: [
-                        { model: FalukantPredefineFirstname, as: 'definedFirstName', attributes: ['name'] },
-                        { model: FalukantPredefineLastname, as: 'definedLastName', attributes: ['name'] },
-                        { model: TitleOfNobility, as: 'nobleTitle', attributes: ['labelTr'] },
+                        { model: FalukantPredefineFirstname, as: 'definedFirstName', attributes: ['name'], required: false },
+                        { model: FalukantPredefineLastname, as: 'definedLastName', attributes: ['name'], required: false },
+                        { model: TitleOfNobility, as: 'nobleTitle', attributes: ['labelTr'], required: false },
                     ],
                 },
             ],
         });
-        return proposals
-            .filter(proposal => proposal.proposedCharacter !== null)
-            .map(proposal => {
-                const birthdate = new Date(proposal.proposedCharacter.birthdate);
-                const age = calcAge(birthdate);
-                return {
-                    id: proposal.id,
-                    requesterCharacterId: proposal.requesterCharacterId,
-                    proposedCharacterId: proposal.proposedCharacter.id,
-                    proposedCharacterName: `${proposal.proposedCharacter.definedFirstName?.name} ${proposal.proposedCharacter.definedLastName?.name}`,
-                    proposedCharacterGender: proposal.proposedCharacter.gender,
-                    proposedCharacterRegionId: proposal.proposedCharacter.regionId,
-                    proposedCharacterAge: age,
-                    proposedCharacterNobleTitle: proposal.proposedCharacter.nobleTitle?.labelTr || null,
+        const valid = [];
+        for (const proposal of proposals) {
+            if (proposal.proposedCharacter == null) {
+                console.warn('[getPossiblePartners] Proposal id=%s filtered out (proposedCharacterId=%s missing)', proposal.id, proposal.proposedCharacterId);
+                continue;
+            }
+            const pc = proposal.proposedCharacter;
+            const birthdate = pc.birthdate ? new Date(pc.birthdate) : null;
+            const age = birthdate ? calcAge(birthdate) : 0;
+            const name = `${pc.definedFirstName?.name ?? ''} ${pc.definedLastName?.name ?? ''}`.trim() || null;
+            if (!name) {
+                console.warn('[getPossiblePartners] Proposal id=%s filtered out (proposedCharacterId=%s has no name)', proposal.id, pc.id);
+                continue;
+            }
+            valid.push({
+                id: proposal.id,
+                requesterCharacterId: proposal.requesterCharacterId,
+                proposedCharacterId: pc.id,
+                proposedCharacterName: name,
+                proposedCharacterGender: pc.gender,
+                proposedCharacterRegionId: pc.regionId,
+                proposedCharacterAge: age,
+                proposedCharacterNobleTitle: pc.nobleTitle?.labelTr ?? null,
                 cost: proposal.cost,
-            };
-        });
+            });
+        }
+        return valid;
     }
 
     async createPossiblePartners(requestingCharacterId, requestingCharacterGender, requestingRegionId, requestingCharacterTitleOfNobility, ownAge) {
diff --git a/backend/utils/syncDatabase.js b/backend/utils/syncDatabase.js
index a51fd35..7968f22 100644
--- a/backend/utils/syncDatabase.js
+++ b/backend/utils/syncDatabase.js
@@ -387,6 +387,77 @@ const syncDatabase = async () => {
             console.warn('⚠️  Konnte Vocab-Trainer Tabellen nicht sicherstellen:', e?.message || e);
         }
 
+        // Relationship-/Marriage-Proposal-Änderungen loggen (keine Einträge löschen; ohne db:migrate)
+        console.log("Ensuring relationship change log (falukant) exists...");
+        try {
+            await sequelize.query(`
+                CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS falukant_log.relationship_change_log (
+                    id serial PRIMARY KEY,
+                    changed_at timestamp with time zone NOT NULL DEFAULT CURRENT_TIMESTAMP,
+                    table_name character varying(64) NOT NULL,
+                    operation character varying(16) NOT NULL,
+                    record_id integer,
+                    payload_old jsonb,
+                    payload_new jsonb
+                );
+            `);
+            await sequelize.query(`
+                CREATE INDEX IF NOT EXISTS relationship_change_log_changed_at_idx
+                ON falukant_log.relationship_change_log (changed_at);
+            `);
+            await sequelize.query(`
+                CREATE INDEX IF NOT EXISTS relationship_change_log_table_operation_idx
+                ON falukant_log.relationship_change_log (table_name, operation);
+            `);
+            await sequelize.query(`
+                CREATE OR REPLACE FUNCTION falukant_log.log_relationship_change()
+                RETURNS TRIGGER AS $$
+                DECLARE
+                    v_record_id INTEGER;
+                    v_payload_old JSONB;
+                    v_payload_new JSONB;
+                BEGIN
+                    IF TG_OP = 'INSERT' THEN
+                        v_record_id := NEW.id;
+                        v_payload_old := NULL;
+                        v_payload_new := to_jsonb(NEW);
+                    ELSIF TG_OP = 'UPDATE' THEN
+                        v_record_id := NEW.id;
+                        v_payload_old := to_jsonb(OLD);
+                        v_payload_new := to_jsonb(NEW);
+                    ELSIF TG_OP = 'DELETE' THEN
+                        v_record_id := OLD.id;
+                        v_payload_old := to_jsonb(OLD);
+                        v_payload_new := NULL;
+                    END IF;
+                    INSERT INTO falukant_log.relationship_change_log (
+                        table_name, operation, record_id, payload_old, payload_new
+                    ) VALUES (
+                        TG_TABLE_NAME, TG_OP, v_record_id, v_payload_old, v_payload_new
+                    );
+                    IF TG_OP = 'DELETE' THEN RETURN OLD; ELSE RETURN NEW; END IF;
+                END;
+                $$ LANGUAGE plpgsql;
+            `);
+            await sequelize.query(`
+                DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS trg_log_relationship_change ON falukant_data.relationship;
+                CREATE TRIGGER trg_log_relationship_change
+                AFTER INSERT OR UPDATE OR DELETE ON falukant_data.relationship
+                FOR EACH ROW
+                EXECUTE FUNCTION falukant_log.log_relationship_change();
+            `);
+            await sequelize.query(`
+                DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS trg_log_relationship_change ON falukant_data.marriage_proposals;
+                CREATE TRIGGER trg_log_relationship_change
+                AFTER INSERT OR UPDATE OR DELETE ON falukant_data.marriage_proposals
+                FOR EACH ROW
+                EXECUTE FUNCTION falukant_log.log_relationship_change();
+            `);
+            console.log("✅ relationship_change_log und Trigger sind vorhanden.");
+        } catch (e) {
+            console.warn('⚠️  relationship_change_log/Trigger konnten nicht sichergestellt werden:', e?.message || e);
+        }
+
         // Vorab: Stelle kritische Spalten sicher, damit Index-Erstellung nicht fehlschlägt
         console.log("Pre-ensure Taxi columns (traffic_light) ...");
         try {